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Proactive Skills · Skill #12 of 12

Getting and Applying Influence

The first eleven skills directly connect to influence development. Hard and soft skills combined create the foundation for influence.

Influence is the capstone skill — the natural outcome of developing all the other eleven skills effectively. It is the ability to shape outcomes, drive change, and lead others even without formal authority. In today's flat organizational structures, influence is often more powerful than position.

Building influence requires a demonstrated performance track record built over time. You cannot shortcut your way to influence. It comes from consistently delivering results, communicating effectively, building trust with your team, managing relationships with stakeholders at all levels, and demonstrating professional behaviors that earn respect.

Professional behaviors and communication are particularly important for building reputation — the precursor to influence. How you conduct yourself in meetings, how you handle conflict, how you treat people at every level of the organization, and how you respond to pressure all contribute to the reputation that determines your influence.

The book distinguishes between formal authority (positional power) and informal influence (earned through competence, relationships, and character). New professionals rarely have significant formal authority, which makes developing informal influence even more critical.

Understanding influence also means understanding organizational dynamics. Who are the key decision-makers? What are the informal communication channels? Where do ideas gain or lose momentum? Strategic awareness of these dynamics allows you to be more effective even early in your career.

The combination of hard skills (technical competence) and soft skills (the other 11 universal skills) creates the foundation for lasting influence. Technical skill alone may earn respect, but it is the soft skills that enable you to translate that respect into organizational impact.

Key Takeaways

  • Influence is the capstone skill built on all other 11 skills
  • Informal influence is often more powerful than formal authority
  • Consistent performance over time builds the track record needed for influence
  • Reputation is determined by how you handle everyday interactions
  • Understanding organizational dynamics is key to strategic influence

Free Exercises & Tools

Practice getting and applying influence with these self-guided exercises from the book. View all resources.

S12R01V3 Influence Self-Assessment PDF

Frequently Asked Questions

How can I build influence without a management title?

Influence comes from consistently delivering results, communicating effectively, building trust, and demonstrating professional behaviors. Focus on the 11 foundational skills first — self-awareness, communication, teamwork, networking, etc. Informal influence earned through competence and character is often more powerful than formal positional authority.

Why is influence considered the capstone skill?

Because it is the natural outcome of developing all other 11 universal skills effectively. You cannot shortcut influence — it requires self-awareness, confidence, resilience, communication, teamwork, time management, networking, and professional behavior all working together. It represents the integration of everything the book teaches.

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